IMPORTANT SECRETS TO KEEP FROM PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE

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Have you ever given someone information and you regretted it? Maybe they gave a whole different version of what you had told them. They could have said so many hurting things about you. We are living in a social media age, where people have let the entire world know about them. The exposure is not positive for all, there is cyber bullying all over. Not everyone who is happy about your progress. They even go to extreme levels of using information they have against you. To be safe, you from all this stress here are the secrets to keep from people.

Family matters

Starting a family or having a family is great. Your family trust you with information, but you go telling other people too much that is not theirs to listen. If your are parent you go telling your colleagues and social media fans of your kids progress in academics, sports or even personal details. If you are fighting with your spouse, everyone who you associate with knows it. You always give people a chance to gossip you. It is better to allow people to talk about what they don’t know. If you are facing challenges in your family seek the right advise from the right people like counselors or someone you can trust. Learn to tame your mouth and your urge to post family problems on social media.

Achievements

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No matter how many achievements you will have to keep them to yourself. If they are to be mentioned may be if it is on an interview or somewhere they are going to benefit you. Some people may think you are bragging and can look for ways to put you down.

Resentments

If you have had a dark past keep it for yourself. Some negative past should remain your secret. Look for professional help to overcome bad situations from your past that may be affecting your present. Some people will keep reminding you of your past just to bring you down or to make you doubt yourself. Keep up with the present, the past is just the past. Live at the moment.

Wealth

There are people who can never be quite when trying to say what they own. They always want to be recognized as rich or try to prove a point that they are doing better. If you are that person who never shuts your mouth over everything you possess change. In a way, you might attract thieves, con men and all kid of evil people in your life. Many people are trying to make ends meet, they will just feel you are bragging or you can demotivate them. When talking about what you possess, you may be in a group of billionaires and they are laughing at whatever you are saying you own. Save yourself the embarrassment and keep what you own to yourself.

Religion/enlightenment

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If you are a religious person try to avoid trying to transform other people. Everyone has a way of enlightenment. Some people try very hard to convert other people intoto what they believe in. Always stay positive, and avoid being judgemental on people’s opinions. Live your life as you wish. Do your prayer or meditation at the right time and don’t force people to join you. This way you will protect your peace in life. The believers and non-believers tend to argue over issues they can’t solve.

Acts of compassion

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Always help people secretly. Don’t go bragging about it to everyone. Do good without expecting anything in return. There is a way that this art of helping makes us better each day. More blessings will come to you when you give.

In conclusion on secrets to keep from people, we can say that people are generally the public, your colleagues or friends. Learn to share valuable information with your nuclear family only. Some things are good to be left untold let them keep guessing. It may seem hard, but practice makes perfect. Keeping secrets will save you from embarrassment, depression and you will always have your peace of mind.FINANCIAL MISTAKES TO AVOID IN YOUR 20’S.